We living an era of distractions. We must be intentional about taking time for intimacy and eliminating distractions so we can draw closer to our spouse.
Why is it that many of us marry our “soul-mate” and after a few years end up with a “room-mate?”
One reason is because over time, many of us stop pursuing intimacy – emotional, spiritual, or physical.
If a third of marriages end in divorce, what’s the percentage of marriages that end in soul satisfying intimacy?
Many of us “get along” in marriage, but rarely go deep to real oneness. Ask yourself:
Jesus recognized his need to “get away” in order to pursue intimacy with His Father: “After bidding them farewell, He left for the mountain to pray” (Mark 6:46).
Often He would steal away from the crowds to be alone with His God. In the same way, soul-satisfying intimacy in marriage requires “mountain-time” with our spouses.
Most of us “work” on our marriage with leftover minutes. We are swept away by the busy life currents: job, house, school, soccer games, and church meetings.
Many marriage counselors recommend a quarterly retreat without the kids and other periodic short-term dates: a day trip, a weekend outing, or a long night out.
But unlike the usual movie and dinner, this time is reserved for digging. Ask the tough questions, assess our roles as husband and wife, father and mother, lovers, etc. And just enjoy each other.
If a longer trip is not feasible, then a date night with intentional conversation can work as well.
When was the last time you and your spouse planned a time to really discuss and invest in your marriage?
Christian Family Life is a marriage discipleship ministry. We are here to offer resources and support no matter what condition your marriage is in. Our passion is to Build, Enrich, and Reconcile Marriages.
No matter where you are in your marriage the Two Becoming One resource will improve your marriage.
As we exchange vows on our wedding day, we make profound promises to each other. These vows encapsulate our commitment and the deep love we share, serving as a foundational blueprint for our marriage. But amidst the excitement and joy, have you ever paused to...
Marriage is often portrayed in movies, songs, and literature as a perfect fairy tale where love is effortlessly and conquers all obstacles. However, anyone who has journeyed through marriage knows that the reality can be far more complex and challenging. The wide...
In the tapestry of marriage, the threads of intimacy – emotional, spiritual, and physical – are interwoven to create a masterpiece of connection. However, life's demands, mismatched libidos, and unmet needs can sometimes fray these threads. This can lead to feelings...