“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.” John 10:10
We just recently installed a video doorbell at our front door. I know, we’re a bit late to the party. Thankfully, it wasn’t prompted by anything serious. Our regular doorbell simply stopped working.
But within 24 hours of installing the new one, we quickly realized why most homes in the U.S. have them. You see a lot more happening around your home than you ever imagined. Delivery people. Random foot traffic. Curious neighbors. It opened our eyes to how much we don’t see, and how much effort we put into protecting what we already have.
But here’s the question that hit me: Are we putting the same energy into protecting what is still to come?
The Chaos of Today’s Families
God’s design for marriage and family is a gift and a blessing. It’s truly the foundation for life. But we’re living in a culture where the enemy’s plan is playing out in real time.
- 50% of children in the U.S. will witness the end of their parents’ marriage.
- One in four children grows up without a father in the home.
- Cohabitation and divorce rates continue to climb, while marriage rates are declining.
The rise of “deconstructed” families is leading many young people to question the value of traditional marriage altogether.
In Genesis 3, Satan’s first move was subtle: “Did God really say…?” It’s the same strategy he uses today to unravel families and erode trust in God’s plan.
What Are We Protecting?
Your spouse is not just your partner, they are a gift from God.
Your children are not just your responsibility, they are a heritage (gift) from the Lord.
Even the air you breathe is God’s mercy in real time.
But the thief, the enemy, comes to steal, kill, and destroy. And he’s not just after what you have now. He’s after your legacy. He’s after the model you’re setting for your kids. He’s after their future.
We lock our doors.
We set alarms.
We install doorbells with cameras.
But do we guard our hearts?
Do we protect our marriages with the same vigilance?
Do we invest in our spiritual legacy as fiercely as we protect our possessions?
Jesus offers more than protection—He offers abundant life. But we must actively guard the good things He’s entrusted to us:
- Guard your marriage with grace, forgiveness, and faithful love.
- Protect your children by modeling faith and being present both physically and emotionally.
- Guard your heart from the lies that subtly undermine God’s truth. Embrace practically what you believe biblically.
The goal isn’t just survival—it’s legacy. While many look to leave a legacy, God’s desire is that we live a legacy!
If you’ve made it this far, you care deeply about protecting what matters most.
At Christian Family Life, we’re committed to helping couples thrive, families flourish, and legacies last—not just for today, but for generations to come.
We’re currently praying and working toward a goal of $10,000 in new recurring monthly support, which will allow us to invest more deeply in the couples and communities we serve. Your generosity helps us equip marriage disciples, produce content, and expand training across the globe.
You can also get involved through one of our Top Golf fundraising events in Charlotte or Ft. Myers—fun and impactful ways to support the mission while connecting with others who share your heart for marriage.
Give now or reach out to learn more about how you can participate, sponsor, or attend one of these upcoming events.
Let’s build something that lasts, together.
